Tips for a Successful Chore Plan

The following are tips for a successful chore plan:

Believe that doing chores is important as they

  • build self-esteem as children see that they are capable, competent and able to contribute to the family
  • instill work habits that last a lifetime, including delaying gratification
  • teach skills needed to become independent and fully-functioning adults

 

Strive for success

  • Start with chores that your children can easily accomplish
  • Keep the amount of time needed to complete chores short
  • Keep the number of tasks to be completed small
  • Be sure that the plan and timetable fits into the family’s schedule
  • Be patient as children learn new skills and work habits

 

Work with your children

  • Solicit their input
  • Allow children to select those tasks that they find most appealing
  • Make sure they know how to do the task; demonstrate how to do it
  • Make clear your expectations for a job well done
  • Give them flexibility about when they will complete the tasks

 

Set a positive tone

  • Be confident in your decision to implement a chore plan in your family
  • Model a positive approach to doing your “chores”
  • Celebrate your children’s accomplishments
  • Chores don’t have to be a “chore.” Lighten the mood with humor, music, games, etc.

 

Promote responsibility and accountability

  • Expect your children to live up to their agreements
  • Have consequences in place for non-compliance
  • Work together to solve problems as they arise
  •  Re-evaluate the plan with your children in a few weeks when they are young and at least several times a year when they are older
  • Be flexible and willing to adjust the plan as needed

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